Romance dating

[Bru78]

Hi guys,

I'm fairly new to this forum but i do read alot of the threads specially in the romance forum.
And i noticed most of the questions is like "what do you consider romantic??" alot of people say "just he's or her's touch" or "he's kindness and the way he looks at me" .
That's fine but the answer i would like to know is ,what would you consider a Romantic Date?????
Now it doesnt have to be first but maybe half away through a relationship and you feel like spoiling your GF or BF.

How would you spend that weekend together or day off that you both managed to get off work...

Reason why i ask is i am interested in hearing some of your thoughts because there is days like this where i have little time with GF and like it to make it special.

cheers, looking forward to your replies...



:)

[opaque]

Well for a weekend go some place where you will have more one on one contact.No a crowed place.

Same for a date.You want it to be on the quiet side so you can talk.
Things that make me think romance are candles,low lighting,quiet.,few people, flowers and the color white.

[MNor]

What you have to realize is that romance isn't about the props, nor the place. It's about you and her. Of course the place, props may add some extra spice.

Imo the most important thing is to make her understand how special she is. FOCUS. Focus on her, about her emotions, reactions and so forth.

Maybe some will disagree with me, but this is my opinion =]

[Pandora1980]

The candle light dinner is nice and all, but if you're going to make a day or weekend of it, you'll need to plan a little more than dinner.
I guess I'd say you have to kind of figure out what she wants- what has she been talking to you about? Does she need to relax? Does she miss the freedom of childhood? Does she want to do something active?

If she wants to relax and money's not an issue, go to a spa together - if it is, make your own spa and pamper her for a day, let her sleep late, give her a massage- find out what they do at spas and do that, or take her to the beech and let her lie there and get some sun.

If she misses being a kid, play soccer or kickball, go to one of those paint your own pottery places, take her to an arcade and the playground.

If she wants to be active, go white water rafting or rock climbing or swimming or something.

Romantic=listening to what she wants/ needs and giving it to her more than she ever thought you would.