Need some advice

[Dupree Slim]

AAight, here it goes; I'm going to a party tomorrow night and there's this girl that I think is beautiful and want to maybe start a relationship with her, trouble is I dont even know her and ive seen her before but its kind of like we steer clear of each other, please give me some advice on how to hook up with her.

[CelesteDeVive]

If you're going to be at a party then there is a simple solution, talk to her. Go up to her and say, "Hi, My name is Alex," extend hand to "shake" (its not really a shake but I am sure you know what I mean) hers, "And I couldn't help but noticing you. Don't we have class together?" Or mention where ever it is that you see her. Ask her to dance or if you can get her a drink. Just try to be original, honest and steer clear of pick-up lines. I hope you have fun and good luck.

[sparkey911]

Here are a couple important things not to forget...

First, be prepaired for your encounter. The better prepaired you are, the better you will do. Read the articles found on this website. There is a wealth of information here on how to make your advances more successfull.

Now, when you get to the party, act imeaditly. As soon as she makes eye contact with you go introduce yourself. After you have introduced yourself and find out her name if you dont already know it, include her name in the very next thing you say. This is a good rule to use when ever you meet someone new. Say something like "Its really nice to meet you Christina". DO NOT SAY THAT YOU PERVIOUSLY DATED SOMEONE WITH THE SAME NAME!! Using her name often threw out your conversation will make it seam to her like she has known you for a long time.

Next, let her lead the conversations. While you are flirting with her, let her do 70% of the talking, while you do 30%. When you do talk, make sure you are asking questions that will get her to talk (Do not ask yes / no questions). This is very important since it shows you are realy interisted in her as a person. Remember that silence kills a conversation, and kills your chances with her.

Fianly... If things are going really well, QUIT WHILE YOU ARE AHEAD OF THE GAME!!! Flirting and dateing are just games that we all play in our lives, the differance is how to play the game and win. Quiting while you are ahead will get you further in the end compaired to pressing your luck right away. Simply tell her that you really need to get going, you have stayed way too long but you were having a great time with her. Tell her that you think that the two of you should hang out some time. Do not ask her out dirrectly because it will give her an opertunity to say no. Simply get her phone number so you can call her, and then excuse yourself. This will give her the illusion that your time is limited and that she is special because you spent additional time with her instead of leaving when you should have.

Most importantly, be yourself. Let her like you for who you are, not who you are pretending to be.

Good Luck!!! Hope that this helps.