Make Him Love U

[lonelyplaceNtx]

:devil: YOU CAN MAKE HIM LOVE YOU AND WANT YOU BY LETTING HIM KNOW HOW MUCH YOU NEED HIM. TOUCH HIM, CARESS HIM, MAKE HIM FEEL WANTED. ONCE HE TELLS YOU HE LIKES YOUR TOUCH AND HE IS FALLING IN LOVE WITHHIM, BAT YOUR EYES. LET HIM KNOW WHAT HE WANTS TO HEAR. TELL HIM HOW YOU WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE MASSAGING HIM AND CARING FOR HIM. AND HOW MUCH OF A GOOD WIFE YOU WILL BE! HE WILL BE HOOKED! I HAVE DONE THAT PLENTY OF TIMES AND I AM ONLY 20. LOL.... HOW DO U GET YOUR MEN HOOKED?(GOOD HEAD?)
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[Karen82]

hi lonelyplaceNtx,

Your all caps are hurting my eyes. Very hard to read messages written in all upper caps. Please turn off your Caps Lock.

[Juls31]

Just wanted to tell you that what you said really sounds good here but it doesn't really work in my world. I have really good luck with men but most of the time they are out for a free ride and that is about it. :bawling: Not doing real well with the present gentleman. He makes me so nervous. But it's the good kind. I just feel stupid around him. :confused: Hopefully this is the mr. right that I've been looking for for so long. Good luck in your ventures.

[lonelyplaceNtx]

well my dear, good luck and put your foot in his a** and make him realize you are the best. find his weak points and make it look like he needs you and without you he is nothing. stand strong and dont fall for his stupid shit. :)
mwah
xox
misty

[Aki Ross]

Don't be nervous with your present gentleman. It's just dating. Nothing bad will happen.

[katty]

Sounds good, lonelyplaceNtx.

[fallen angel]

ass kissing only leads to a needy man....

its all about you...make him think you make him a better person...

[Aprilsky]

I don't agree with what this post is about, I am not about to devote my whole life to make a guy feel needed, i don't think love involves you having to go through all that trouble just to land a guy, if its love he will feel special already, just to have you. And I dont' want to make somebody love me, I want them to fall on their own. In my opinion what you have said is very manipulative.:mad:

[Kaisharga]

I totally agree. What she said. :kaioken:

[Pandora1980]

:rolleyes: Taking care of him and wanting to take care of him is fine- you gotta remember that taking care of you comes first. Guys really respect and get along better with a woman who has her own life.
When he becomes your life- where do you vent the problems you have with him ? how are you making yourself a better person?
Whether you believe that you live for him or not- a guy worth keeping doesn't want to be your world. He wants you to live for you-he wants to know that he has this great girl who does everything she loves and still manages to have time to love him. A guy worth keeping doesn't want to be your life- he wants to be part of it.

[Byron]

Your pharse "A guy worth keeping doesn't want to be your life- he wants to be part of it." is beautifully written.

[Austingirl]

You will find that the older you get, and the more mature you become, that it isn't all about YOU! Unless BOTH are givers, this subject of love will not exist.Love Is very diffucut to find and even harder to hold on to. So, if you think that just playing games, will find you LOVE, I am affraid you are horribly mistaken!

[Pandora1980]

I have a few things to say in response to the post above mine
1- You completely missed the point
2- Maturity and age are not synonymous
3- I made no mention of games- taking care of yourself is not a game
4- The point I was trying to make is a healthy relationship is not waiting on your partner hand and foot
5- Do you really think that your partner wants to be the sole source of your happiness? I don't want a guy that I'm dating to feel like it's a job. I don't want him to think (or feel myself) that I am not a person without him. Sure- I think about him when we're not together- sure I care how he feels- yes I do nice things for him.
6- If you're happy doing your own thing, having your own life it makes it much less difficult if it ends. Yes- there's a hole where he used to be- but you know that you'll eventually be ok. You're not left with nothing- you still know that you have all of the other things you love and that you're still a whole person without him.
7- Who really wants to date or end up with someone so dependant that you can't do the things that make you happy because they need to be with you at all times?
8- In no way did I say that a relationship doesn't involve work- all I was saying is how are you going to find someone to love you if you don't love yourself enough to do the things that make you happy?

Hey- if all you want is to be barefoot and pregnant waiting on your husband hand and foot- go right ahead- that's just not what I want for myself.

If that's not what you want- I have some advice for you- read "Ten Stupid Things Women do to Mess up their Lives" by Dr. Laura Schlessinger". Otherwise- this "love" that you think you know will most likely leave you miserable.

[Kaisharga]

Actually, I think AustinGirl was trying to reinforce and agree with your point.

[Pandora1980]

Sorry- Austingirl- I thought when you said "it isn't all about YOU" you were responding to my post.
Sorry if I was mean.
But about recommending the Dr. Laura book- anyone who buys into this person's advice of making him love you by telling him you need him- you really should read it because you need some help.:smash:

Once again -sorry about that Austingirl.:wavey:

[GeminiTau]

Pandora you are a smart intelligent woman who will find the right man for you if you already have not and lonelyplaceNtxlonelyplaceNtx you need to reevalute your reasoning and logical thinking. As I have said you cannot MAKE anyone love you. Why would you want someone who does not return your love anyway??? Why do you want to give up yourself to someone who is not interested??? If this individual has just gotten out of a hurtful relationship why would they want to jump into another one?? One more question...why do you want to set yourself up for hurt and dissapointment, because obviously you are expected things from someone that they are not even knowledgeable of. Is that fair to them, is it fair to you? Those are questions that you need to ask.