Should I call her?

[Dupree Slim]

I thought this girl didn't like me back, so I didn't call her for bout 3 weeks cuz I didn't want 2 make myself look like a jackass. I feel bad about it, especially since I liked her, and, now, Im not really sure if me liked me or not. Please give me some info. of how to go about trying 2 get a little spark going between us again.

[girl]

I read your related post, and yes, call. If she was sincere when she said she needed time, she really did and now that she's had a lil time and space talk to her again. Don't be pushy, take it easy, and it'll work. Approach it as just maintaining a friendship for the moment, and don't immediately expect anything else, and I'm sure you'll find the "spark" again. If she was just trying to use the whole thing as an excuse, she's not honest enough to be in a long term relationship anyway and she's not worth your time.

[opaque]

Well if you didn't call me for 3 weeks I would take the hint to leave you alone. Now you need to let her know you still like her.You could just tell her you didn't want to seem to pushy thats why you didn't call her.I am sure she is wandering what happened.Ask her out and you will know if she likes you.

[Tyler]

It's better to love, to try and risk rejection than giving up love by not even trying.

[Fever]

Don''t hold back. If you really like her, let her know. Don't be afraid of being the fool if she reject. The real fool is the one who like someone and don't do anything cos he/she is afraid of rejection.

Just give her a call. Maintain contact with her. Be there for her. If you treat a person well, the person will know it. She may not reciprocate your feelings but you never knows when she might change her mind about you. :)

[Dupree Slim]

Thanx, ya'll!;)

[reign226]

You're welcome. Wait, I sense something is wrong here :)

Anyway, I agree with opaque. Three weeks is a mighty long time for breaking a constant calling schedule. It also depends on the girl and whether or not she is sensitive towards you to realize your absent calls. I know, this sounds harsh but hey, it could be true. Sorry for pouring cold water on you (or however you phrase that saying).