please let me the signs to look out for if that gurl likes me for me

[biddo007]

to be ones self is sometimes the hardest thing to do , well atleast for me it is. i feel this constant pressure to be joe cool all the time.

am i just an attention seeker?
i am scared if a chick doesnt like me for who i am............


may be i am just low on self esteem...

i dont know u tell me.


i was sitting on my ass during a break at college and then this chick who i kinda like came and i was lookin down on the concrete.

and then she said r u lookin at my feet, please dont look at my feet i hate it when ppl do that.....

what the hell is that like i even care about feets ane way i didnt respond..........but may be im thinkin too much..............
i hope things turn out ok.

it probably means didly squat which i hope...:)

let me know the signs to look out for please!!!

fellas and ladies

[ladeda]

Smile at her next time and make eye contact.

[whiskeyhard]

I think she just made the first move. ;) Good for you!!!

[IncuFabulous]

You didn't look up and smile and say no and that now you are looking at her????

What she said wasn't anything bad.....use it to start a conversation instead of saying nothing which is what you did!!

Work things to your advantage!

[badboykilla]

oh my GOD, you have ALOT to learn in this game my man!!!!

How old are you?? You sound like a young buck, man if that had been me, I would have been all over that in a second, I would have probably gotten her number at the very LEAST!!! Chicks say stuff like that to get you started in a converstion, if you dont pick up on those signs, then youll be screwed!!! Trust me man, I was used to be like you in HS and part of college Not anymore though. All it takes is practice, practice and more practice.....its all a game to girls, so when they start talking to you they giving you the ball...question is CAN YOU BALL?? Do YOU HAVE ANY GAME???

[reign226]

No offense but badboykilla, you sound like a sex crazed maniac who treats girls as a hunt rather than a pursuit. I'm not trying to offend you but I'm just stating out my view. If you don't like it, I'd love to hear your response.

As to the initial poster's question, yeah, I think that's used to break the ice. Do you know the person in question well? Ask yourself that and treat a friend like you would normally next time. Even if you are looking to advance beyond friendship, being silent and cool is not going to help much.

To be oneself, that's hard. I know the pressure you're trying to talk about and I believe much of this pressure comes from the presence of your male friends. Next time, move away a little and it's much easier to be yourself. At least, that's what I think.