Seduction ideas.

[Soap]

These are some ideas I read somewhere you can use to surprise and impress the object of you affection:

1. Magic: Magic is easy, its not difficult to learn an effective trick which can be used in everyday situations, just go to you local magic store or look for free tricks on the internet and find some things you can do. Try to learn a couple of slight of hand tricks for producing things like cards, small flowers etc. Also some dissapearing tricks are usefull, make her ring dissapear and tell her she will have to search you to get it back :-).

2. Palm reading: this works a gem and give you a chance to hold his or her hands:)

3: Learn to juggle: Just spend about 15 min to 30 min learnign to juggle three balls. Its not that much effort and then you can juggle. You can now surprise her my picking up some apples and start to juggle them, what her eyes light up with joy!

4: Learn to play an instrument: I recommend a guitar as, well some girls just like guys who can play the guitar. Just learn a few simple chords and you can play simple tunes e.g. Learn D G Em and A

Then you can play Love2000 soundtrack, love is all around by wet wet wet, Forerver in Love by Kenny G. just some ideas.

If you want any more information on any of these, just share and see wat other ideas we can come up with.

[Mischief]

cool.

I think the ability to dance well will also helps.
Not in the sense of dancing like a idiot doing the YMCA movements but dance with good rthythm and eye contact.

Mi? I dance like an elephant.

[Haze]

But i like the YMCA movements. My bf danced great. LOL. He was doing the "Y" and "M" and "C", finally "A". Kept jumping and jumping. I am a real idiot in dancing, i know nuts about it, so i just move my body anyhow. :p

[Joey]

my god, your boyfriend really does that?

it's so cheesy. Something like John Travolta dancing the Saturday Night Fever thing. But he look cool and he is the fatest hunk in hollywood.

1 rule of dancing: Never follow what the song as you to do. You will only look silly.

[BlondeLooker]

As a regular dancer, I can tell you that its important to smile whatever you are doing.

Violent arm and leg movements or trying to be John Travolta will rapidly ensure a circle of empty space opens up around you.

Try smaller movements, particularly involving the whole body if possible (shoulders, arms, hands, hips - practice in the mirror until you like what you see!).

Never approach a woman on the dancefloor. Use eye-contact to get her attention and if it persists wait for her to come to you. I've seen many guys told to `****-off' on the floor because they are getting too close, without the prerequisite `permission'. Often, they see something they like, but forget that the woman might have some say as well! In my experience, if you are in, then you will gradually move closer together anyway.

Personal space is as important on the floor as it is off of it. Girls might be hitting the floor to end up with a guy, but you still have to obey the basic rules.

[shyguy13]

Sounds like a friend of mine. He would do any of those things, and they never failed to help him gain the attention of a woman. He's fat, but when he makes a cigarette go through a quarter, or plays the guitar, women always look at him like he's Brad Pitt.

[Cleo]

Talk about dancing! One guy i know danced like (pardon me) a shy amateur female stripper -- doing some tilted head and move your heaps moves. Or like the guy who sings "do you really want to hurt me" . Bleah -- turn off really. Gotta learn some moves -- look at MTV or ppl at the clubs -- that's how i see what moves are "in".:D

[hopeless1]

;) :rolleyes:

[shuxclams]

This is a more complicated scenario, and one best suited for mature people.

1) Go and book a hotel downtown, a nice one, not the most fancy room but a nice one.

2) Go and get an outfit that is you but something that your "date" has seen you in or suspect.

3) Now comes the good part, send your date a card inviting them to a night of intregue, tell them that they must find an outfit or disguise and meet you at a secret and yet unknown place for a date. Let them know when you will tell them where to meet you.

4) The day of the meeting send another note, card or flowers with directions to the Hotal and instructions that they are to meet in the Lobby, restarant or bar.


Be dressed to kill, do your hair different, get fake glasses or a wig and play it up, your lover/date will be blown away. :o)








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[Cleo]

that is so cool -- I have to print this out! Hmmmmmm.:D

[shuxclams]

Glad you like it, it is very exciting for the planner and the invitee I can asure you. Smaller scale versions would be playing dressup for a meeting for dinner, it works as well but less extravigent.
















SHUX

[PerletPhp]

lol. that's pretty funny, ya i guess i need to get back to that guitar playing =D

as for dancing, i can dance pretty well, err, but i coulda sworn my dance teacher told me that you were supposed to go up to the girl and ask her to dance

it always works for me :)

as for the "moving in" (i assume u mean slow dancing), i don't do that, if the girl wants to get lovevy dovy with me then she will if she is comfortable, if not, then a nice relaxing dance will work just fine for me :D


Regards,
PerlETPhp

:cool:

[Pandora1980]

Shuxclams- that's an awesome idea- I wish my boyfriend would think of that. That's probably in my top 3 ideas I've ever heard.
Maybe I'll do that for my boyfriend for a surprize visit (since we're doing the long distance thing).

Anyway... I've never seen magic work in picking up a girl, never heard of juggling working. I understand the palmreading thing although there's the chance they think you're weird. Instrument is good too.
I personally, find sense of humor the most attractive quality, if a guy can make me laugh, he's pretty much got me hooked.

In the bar scene, mentioning something that everyone's witnessed works too- some drunk chick falling off her chair or some asshole bothering the both of you- making a joke about it might strike up a conversation.
If you do go out to bars, find a fun bar, there's a bar near me that puts toys in the drinks, lights the bar on fire, the bartenders spit fire, they have highlighters and people write on eachother so you can see it in the blacklight, puts everyone in a fun mood, more likely to talk to people.
Noticing something about them works somtimes too, if there's anything about them that could possibly start a conversation go for it, may or may not work.
Sometimes just asking what they do will strike up enough conversation for you and them to want to continue with it.
You could even ask what there is to do in the area...
Anything to strike up a conversation- for me the dancing thing never works- I'm more of a talker... just be yourself and try not to look creepy.

[Augustinus]

Most of us have been in the situation when they have been in grocery store and seen a clerk they find attracting but are unsure how to make the "move". So, i decided to let you in on my secret tactic i simply call "the nose".

We all know that the first impression is very important, and in this kind of store situation it is essential. You must have something to make you interesting out of the crowd of hundred customers. The thing most people are unaware is that first impression doesn't need to be positive, or negative. It just has to make the other person remember you. But thats enough for theory, lets move on to the practical side.

In grocery store situation, most of your physical appearance is hidden behind the counter, and because impressing him/her with your personality is very difficult due to limited time, we must concentrate on the one thing they are sure to notice, our face, and more precisely, our nose. The idea is to enlarge our nose exactly the right amount, so that it is almost unnatural, but then again, just small enough that one cannot be 100% sure if you just are somesort of freak of nature. This can be easily accomplished with some help of a make up artist, or even by yourself with a little practice. Just remember not to over do it! It has to look natural, though as large as possible. This is where the more experienced "players" are separated from the kiddies. I have seen some really bad noses in my life done by people who think that "only size matters."
Once you have your nose done, it is time to get into the action. Go to establishment where the light of your heart is working and shop normally. The critical moment is when you must actually pay, naturally. The idea here is to try to make her/him notice your nose, whatever the cost. Sometimes this is very easy, especially if you did a good job with your nose, and (s)he will ask you about it without you having to do anything! (compare that to having to start the conversation yourself, whew!). But unluckily, this most often is not the case(don't be worried if this is the case, they have probably seen hundreds of noses today alone so it is only natural) and you must "guide" them a little. Perhaps the most common way is the classic "What's that smell" line accompanied with exaggerated sniffing gestures, but this might be bit banal. I prefer the "keep it simple stupid" method and use the plain "just a second, i think i got something in my nose" line which automaticly draws their attention to the right direction (and the plus side is that, if you are a "wild" person, it allows you to demonstrate the elaquate muscularity of your nose when picking it in the right fashion. I would suggest learning to do this infront of a mirror first though, or the end result might be grotesk instead of exciting).
Now, if you did everything correctly, she should be awakened from her/his deep slumber of mechanical duty to notice your beautiful nose and usually come up with question like "Oh, what the *** have you done to your nose?". Now comes the most important part, if you fail this you are out of luck, and i would suggest finding a new place to shop your groceries. Under no circumstances are you allowed to laugh, or in any other way indicate that your nose is not yours. Best way is to act slightly offended. Here is an example dialogue of how it should be done:

"Hmm.. have you noticed a strange fragnance in the air tonight, *sniff* *sniff*"
"Uh.. What the hell have you done to your nose?"
"My nose? What is wrong about my nose" (sounding offended)
"Uh, nothing. It just seems somewhat err.. nothing. Must be the lights doing tricks."
"Is it normal practice here to make remarks about customer's nose? I have never been as offended in my life, i shall contact the manager." (Sound angry and leave the shop looking furiours).

If you were able to complete the first phase as above, you are almost there. (S)he should definitely remember you now. Next day visit the store, this time not wearing your nose. When you get to the counter you will know how you did yesterday. If (s)he makes a comment like "Your nose seems different today", you know you hit the jackpot. Just reply "Oh, you must be talking about my twin brother, he has a very large nose. Would you like to come to my place when you are finished". If, on the other hand, she does not make any comment about your nose whatsoever, you know that you missed. Just pay your bill normally and leave. You didn't succeed but hey, instead of making embarrasing hit on her/him infront of all the other customers, you walked away with your dignity and self-confidence intact. This is the best part of the nose strategy, you just cannot lose.
Well, i know this was just general outline of much more complex strategy and you probably have horde of questions regarding the actual shape and color of the nose etc. but alas, my time is limited so I must limit this just to an introduction, but if you have questions feel free to contact me.