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Texan
01-18-2002, 10:06 AM
There is a girl (waitress) that I like at a place I go to often. All the body lauguage was there the first 3 weeks I saw her, holding eye contact, her back turn away while her friend would look, etc... My problem is I got out of a 8 year relationship a month ago and at that time I was not ready to flirt, but at the same time I am very attracted to her! Well I want to talk to her now but all the signals are gone I guess from waiting to long. My question is: Is the door all the way closed since I did'nt react when she gave me the signals too? One other thing is I heard she had a boyfriend, but the signals I got earlier she must not be happy...

angellove
01-18-2002, 10:01 PM
well, darlin', it doesn't sound to me like you have ever tried to talk to this girl, other than casual flirting. if you're interested in her, get to know her as a friend first (with some of that subtle flirting mixed in there;) ). that way, if she isn't interested, you haven't actually been rejeted, and you'll also have a friend. good luck! :wavey: