How do I get my crush to like me

[LilSara86]

:flake: Now this is the thang :flake:
I'M TOTALLY about hooking up w/ guys and all that good stuff but theres this one particular guy that im just wild about lately!! and we've gone pretty far...and well i don't wanna loose him but laterly he's been acting pretty weird. Like less affectionate and he's not always ALL OVER ME like how he used to be. It's like somthings changed. and since we're not a deff. couple I can't really ask him whats up and that ya know... its soo confussing!! HELP!!!!

[TroubleX2]

Sadly....

You'll learn that a lot of guys can have the attitude of "I've attained the goal so there's nothing more". They may play and chase when they've not gotten what they were after, but often once they've gotten it they'll go away or lose interest.

Think of it like a kitten with a mouse.... love to play with it while it's alive, but once they catch it--game over.

I hope this isn't what's happening with you and the other post you made, but it's possible.

A quote I've heard and have said myself quite a bit now...

--Why buy the cow (no inferrence to ANY women reading this) when you can get the milk for free.

Translation.... ladies if you don't want to and aren't gaining as much out of it, don't give yourself away too quickly.

--Trouble thinking he caught the ranting bug from Kai....*cough*

[jsbyrn]

Yeah I have to agree TroubleX, it just sounds like maybe he's attained the satisfaction of knowing he can have her, so it's no longer important.

Or, it could just be that the magic and mystery sortof disappears once you've been with someone and you know them a little better.

But, I think in this case it's probably the first one.

[MNor]

I recognize this in myself. The chase is always fun, but when you first get her you get really really bored with her and just find a new one.